I was destined to write a best realistic dildo guide…As a silicone dildo expert & sensation specialist, I describe firmness balance, silicone finish, real-feel dildo lines that make the most realistic dildos, all 100% body-safe silicone. May 17, 2025by Felicity

Fantastic Balance; Realistic Coloring; My Favorite Life-like Dildo Ever.Detailed Solina ×3 Review HereShop: $39.99 to $69.00 Here (3 total sizes)

I’ve been waitin’…for a toy like you🎵, I almost want to sing to my favorite Solina dildo: a level of most realistic dildo I’ve been seeking for 10 years.

If you’re looking for 1 ultra-realistic toy with average girth, go Solina Mega “large.” All 3 Solina Mega dildo sizes are platinum-cured silicone, nonporous, and dual-density (soft skin + firm core). Solina dildos’ cured silicone highlights create a pink head that won’t degrade, even if you want to boil it to sanitize your toy!

This is my dream: soft, smooth silicone that glides yet feels like skin. Use Sliquid Silk lubricant for a cum-like effect(!). This dildo feels so real inside, and I love how the large’s crown tugs, gently yet noticeably.

Since I’m a bit of a size queen, the large size is my awesome period dildo; the XL is a happy medium if you want girthy but not whoa! big; while the XXL size Solina Mega is my personal favorite dildo most days. The popping ridge, skin retracted below, rolllllls over my G-spot, again and again while thrusting. Stimulation on repeat, the closest thing to foreskin moving you’ll find in a cured, nonporous sex toy. OMG the Solina dildo’s skin texture: I can fall asleep with it inside (after orgasming on this dildo that feels so real), it’s so comfortable. It’s the real feel of a RealCock dildo, except *not* uber-expensive, plus more stable!

Solina Mega ultra realistic suction cup dildo’s 3 sizes × 2 colors! ✌️Tip: If you’re seeking a dildo for vaginal use, try the Solina paired with the Zen Rose vibrator’s rumbly vibes + clit suction. Soooo stimulating. But, if you want average girth with balls too, the new Solina Prima ultra realistic dildo is a cut cock that’s exactly median erection size. (=Spot-on average.) It has 5.5″ insertable length, and then you can grip on the balls – or let its soft silicone scrotum slap on (or under) your clit or your chode.

Solina realistic dildos with balls, from left to right: Prima, Maxima, Spotta.

Mega vs. Solina Lifelike Dildos with Balls for G-Spot

Then – just when I didn’t think I could get more excited here, but *this* is an expansion – two of the new Solina realistic dildos with balls put out more focused G-spot emphasis vs. the Mega:

• The Spotta’s got asculpted ridge that targets it as you thrust: this means, 👋Bye-bye,any remaining allegiance I had for the VixSkin Mustang G-spot dildo, which now feels not realistic at all by comparison. The Spotta dildo’s real feel is so much better in the shaft.
• But hot d@mn: Solina Maximaamps upthe forward curve, for the inward pressure that both G-spots and prostate glands crave. This is 100% the ultra-realistic silicone cock I hoped I’d get back when the Colours Dual Density 8″ was released. Instead I hadda wait 5 years for the Solina Maxima to arrive, since it’s a smoother glide, it feels more skin-soft, and it looks better too. It is, however, more flexible than an erection as it gets narrower at bottom! Still choose Solina Mega XL (or the huge XXL) for best erect+soft realistic balance.

😉 All 3 of these ultra-real silicone dildos have the full package, the complete cock&balls picture – not just great for the look 👀, but capable of rubbing on the clitoris (or perineum) outside when you insert the real-feeling dildo’s full length. Still, bigger dildo balls are harder to hold and “jerk in” to your body if you got small fingers like me. Thankfully, none of these new Solina dongs with balls have massive sacks, so they stress my wrist less. Pros & Cons of balls on a realistic dildo, here.

#2: Blush Neo Elite – The Affordable Option

Lowest-Cost for Dual-Density Silicone; Good Suction CupsDetailed Neo Elite Review HereShop: $23.99 to $70.99 Here (most around $33)

Blush’s Neo Elite is the cheapest lineup of dual-density dildos that I would trust is 100% platinum-cure silicone (the body-safe stuff!). Starting at under $24, Blush has managed to make these dual-layer dildos—whose production requires more time and labor than single-layer toys do—available for costs that can retail for between $29.95 and $35.99. And the feel is pretty good!

Neo Elite includes 8 phallic toy shapes now: comparison here. The NON-glow Neo Elite all made up of the same silicones, each one is a suction cup dildo, but they definitely don’t feel the same. (Due to their different shapes, core sizes, and surface textures!) And while Neo Elite Glow looks cool, their silicone is marginally firmer outside, so they don’t feel quite as good inside the body, IMO.

#3: BMS Naked Addiction Dual Density – Tapered + Smooth.

Tapered Tip & Smooth Glide; Good Skin Feel (Non-Luxury Pricing)Detailed Review HereShop: $59.99 Here

The Naked Addiction Dual Density Dildo is a great penis stand-in if you are not into coronal ridges that tug for G-spot stimulation or prostate play! Its smaller tip + gently expanding shape make it less imposing.

It has a more tapered tip vs. the Solina realistic dildos, so I think it’s still a good choice for the gentlest anal insertion.

You can’t truly discuss a skin-like feel without covering silicone finish. Platinum silicone can be glossy or draggy, the same way it can range from super-squishy to almost-plastic-hard. And even just a few years ago, the Naked Addiction Dual Density Dildo was the most delightful finish around.

Skin details!!! For years (before Solina dildos), I found the N.A. dual the best ultra realistic for under $100. Thrust it by hand, or ride it using the strong suction cup base—with good lube, this realistic silicone will glide beautifully. With its 5.5 inch realistic length, it’s not too long to sit on (if, like me, you’re not into depth play).

#4: VixSkin Mustang – Lifelike dildo for Anal

The Crowd Favorite; Slick Finish; Great for PeggingDetailed Review/Comparison HereShop: $136 Here

Part of the bestselling VixSkin lineup,Mustang is Vixen Creation’s most fan-favorited toy by far. Mustang’s shaft is a delicate balance, quite realistic when lubed up. (Like a silicone-lube-covered penis sliding nicely.) And though Mustang is a crowd favorite, you may very well be drawn to the impressively large Vixen Creations Outlaw, or the slender Spur.

Mustang realistic dildo is available in 3 tan-to-brown colors (caramel skin color here), plus Tie-Bright seen above. The glans (cock head) is squashy-gummy soft. And if a toy’s head is that squishy, I also need it to be LARGE and stick out more. My G-spot wants the attention; more protruding = better Gspot stimulation. And Mustang gives that, with a big mushroom curve. The extra-pronounced nature of Mustang’s ridge and curved shaft counteract the “slightly flaccid” effect that I frequently get from Vixen VixSkin dildos—somewhat. I don’t ever see this complaint about anal usage, where folks usually LOVE super-soft silicone. But for me as a vaginal user, the Mustang feels a tad “starting to go soft.”

IMO, Mustang’s head is best suited for hard and fast thrusting. If you’re sensitive, you can go as speedily as you want, still with no discomfort. And Mustang glides when lubed, so slick. If only its weak-ish suction cup was stronger, to stick well to a fucking machine!

#5: Uberrime Realistic Dual Density artisan dildos

Best Artisan Realistic DildosShop:$89 to $135(depending on size)

Uberrime Dildos has upgraded how realistic their toys look in the past 2 years: with a wider range of dual-density silicone. Seen below are 1) Maxime, which has the best G-spot pressure; 2) Optimo; and 3) Teres, great for thrusting.

These dual layer toys stand out because they have thicker firm cores, making them more stable—more consistently erect, if you will—during faster thrusting. They bend less than the Neo Elite 7.5 Inch, or the VixSkin Mustang.

Handmade in Florida, Uberrime realistic dildos have sparkly (and safe) pigments, even in the flesh-tone colors! Independent makers rarely manage to produce two-layer dildos—there’s too much potential for failure. But Uberrime’s Marco has spent years perfecting the process. Uberrime’s Splendid was the first dual-density toy I ever had from a small artisan maker—the ability to pull off two-layer toys consistently is very rare!

#6: RealCock 2: The MOST Real Dildo? NOPE.

Super-Real-Looking; Hyper-Realistic Dildo ArtShop: Don’t, actually.

TL;DR: If you’re gonna put out $500 for a realistic dildo experience, buy a Premium sex machine and a cheaper dual-density siliconeattachment that pairs with it. (I always use my Solina ultra-realistic dildo on the Hismith fucking machine, now.) Together, they will do the work for you—much easier than the RealCock 2 dildo.

I thought I’d made this guide *definitive* once I got a RealCock 2, the most premium faux-erection in production. By “premium,” I mean expensive. This is one fookin’ expensive dildo. My RealCock 2 Dirk looked soooo beautiful at first, I was enthralled:

But then, by a few weeks in, the problems. Oh, all the problems with this $600 hyper-realistic dildo. 1.) The density balance is not perfect, even for over a half-grand: the silicone outside feels squidgier than an erect penis head. 2.) The massive balls + huge skin flap make it ultra-difficult to thrust by hand. 3.) I don’t think the RealCock2 is 100% silicone, I think it’s a TPE + silicone blend. Because: mine got an infection. Seriously. I had 10 other silicone toys in a drawer touching it when I got a Dialister bacteria vag. infection (from receiving oral from a non-monogamous partner, huge mistake), and this Realcock was the only sex toy that got nasty. Developed blisters all over its balls. Disgusting. Though I sanitized the lifelike dildo with 70% isopropyl alcohol, its boils will never go away.

Though the RealCock 2s claim to be ultra-realistic, and they do feel good at first, but other customers have also found they degrade over time, plus Abyss/RealDoll isn’t fulfilling orders promptly as of early 2024.

Rating Factors for the Most Realistic Dildos

I weigh realistic dildos based on two major factors: Feel & Body-Safety.

For #1, Feel: I’ve discovered the three most-important sub-factors:

• A.) Hardness & firmness balance. All my top most-realistic dildos are soft & fleshy outside. I will never recommend a rock-hard silicone toy and claim that a panel of experts thinks it’s best. Dual (two) layer toys also must balance the core thickness vs. flexibility. How erect, yet soft, can it feel???
• B.) Silicone finish. It must be silky, not gummy. This is the big difference between Solina & VixSkin for me.
• C.) Realistic texture, weighing delicate lines vs. wham-bam textures. Unfortunately, a wave of new skin-line-laden toys out of China looks sweet in photos, super lifelike—butttttt, the extra-super-skin detailing drags like nuts inside. You can immediately feel that an over-textured silicone dildo (Curve Jock 9.8″, for example) is a polymer, not a human penis. I always keep my eye on for the sweet trade between “looks realistic” but “doesn’t have all this awful printed texture.”

As always, I want anyone reading to think through 🤔 how verifiably body-safe options are similar and different – and consider your own unique preferences before you buy. Dildo size, and whether you like G-spot / prostate stimulation, are huge individual factors!

#2, Safety. Silicone is also much, much more easy to clean! I will NOT recommend you a toxic PVC King Cock; or the Lifelike Lover Classic realistic dildo by Lovehoney (porous TPR/TPE that can grow bacteria). Silicone lifelike dildos, like other silicones, “have good UV resistance, excellent thermal and chemical resistance.” This means they don’t degrade so easily, they can stand the test of time and last over 45 years!

How to Clean a Realistic Dildo?

Cleaning a body-safe silicone realistic dildo is truly simple. You only need soap and water. Any household soap or detergent will do! Soap surrounds bacteria & microorganisms by forming micelles, as you scrub the toy down with soap – then wash away the germs with running water.

Tragically, TPE/TPR (softened thermoplastics) toys called “real feel” don’t have longevity and durability silicone does. This is why silicone is used in biomedical implants, whereas – in sharp contrast – TPE and PVC dildos break down, developing cracks and leaching. Only silicone soft dildos over here.

How to Add Lifelike Feel to a Dildo

Once you have the best realistic dildo for you, and it’s a solid safe material:

54. 🔥Add Warmth. What if it feels cold going in? Silicone does remain at room temperature, whereas human body temp. runs hotter. To close this gap, you can fix the “cold upon entry” problem by simply warming your dildo up.

• Since silicone dildos that feel real can withstand a wide temperature range (-45°C to 200°C = from -49°F to 392°F), the temperature your sensitive skin can stand is the limiting factor! Warm by running under warm water (safest).

• You can boil a silicone dildo, but be very very sure it is not literally too hot prior to putting it in your body.

55. 💦Add Glide. Use a body-safe lubricant, too. Silicone needs a lil extra slickness, no matter how real-feeling the dildo’s skin texture is. A few drops of good water-based or hybrid lubricant (my favorites here) absolutely enhances the whole dildo experience.

56. 🔝Ride On It. Being in control of penetration helps the real feel, as well. Riding on top (=cowgirl) for vagina-havers is frequently the best position. Tho I love “jerking in” a dildo, riding is the best sex-workout, phew!!! My top choice for realistic dildo feel cowgirl is the BodyDock wrapped ’round pillows: I get control + comfort here. Helpful additional tools:

57. A good sex machine will really drive the dildo for you – so hands-free, lazy “lay back ‘n’ enjoy!” play is possible. Hismith Premium remains the best machine to mount your best realistic dildo on, via choosing their stainless steel suction cup attachment.

58. And, you’ll likely want a reasonably priced waterproof blanket to shield your sheets from the drip 💧 (especially if you’re known to squirt during sex, but even if not!). Because: After I’m thru with a machine & favorite likelike dong, I do *not* have the energyto spot-clean!

Best 100% Soft Dildos for Anal

Especially for larger dildos and/or for anal play, soft-soft silicone toys are super popular. SquarePegToys and Hankey’s Toys (get 75% Soft firmness for toys up to 6.5″ circumference, or 30% Soft firmness for the big’uns) are the best makers of realistic lifecasts (bodysafe materials, of course: 100% handmade platinum silicone).

Again, be sure to avoid King Cock PVC realistic dildos, which are a trash material. Both SquarePeg and Hankey’s are known for SUPER-sizing it: making many huge dildos, girthy realistic ones, and extra-long dildos too; though average-size options are available as well! I’ll talk about those biggies and other kinda-soft-silicone, mass-produced toys here. These are highly preferred if you’re looking for a comfortable anal dildo; their soft silicone will bend with your rectum. (On a side note: Pssst, if you need a soft, wearable butt plug, please check out the Egg Plug.)

SquarePegToys makes *fantastic* SuperSoft silicone dildos, molded from real humans! - SquarePegToys realistic lifecasts include Leo (the most popular, a long ‘un), Nathan, Mel, and Dirk. SquarePeg was the first maker to create truly soft silicone dildos (in 2006), and they deserve mad respect for that!!! See my full SquarePegToys SuperSoft realistic comparison here.

• Mr. Hankey’s Toys makes many porn-star lifecasts these days (I’ve reviewed a couple!), plus realistic “not based on an actual person” dildos. Many users interpret the squish of Hankey’s 75% Soft silicone as “skin-like.” I think the finish is awesome: like the BMS Naked Addiction Dual Density, it’s halfway between slick and draggy. The soft silicone gliiiiides with lube. It’s smooth enough, but not so smooth that I can’t feel the skin detailing. (And u should know I love the skin detailing.) Since I often interpret “very soft” (about 00-50 shore durometer and below1) as “semi-flaccid,” I like Hankey’s Toys best with a vibe stuck in their Vac holes. Topher Michels’s short thickness is awesome with a strong vibe inside—my favorite vibrating dildo.
• Fleshjack Boys/Fleshlight Guys dildos are lifecast porn star cocks as well, but they really don’t feel great. At 8 to 9A shore durometer, they may technically share the firmness of an erection—but without the same soft skin feel, since if you go more erection-like for the whole, the single-layer silicone can’t be super-soft outside. The bases on these things are chunky due to the balls, but all include a Tantus-esque suction cup that sticks into a hole in the base. (This setup is slightly wobbly and works better stuck to horizontal surfaces than vertical ones, so gravity isn’t pulling the toy off the insert.)

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Notes

67. Any density that won’t read well on an A durometer, basically: 00-50 and 5A are not the same.
68. Being the owner of a micro penis with ed issues I wanted to give my wife a “big cock” exerience so I purchased the Real Feel Dirk dildo and Doc Johnson Vacu- lock harness.All I can say is she has become addicted to this!! Her o’s are off the chart and she loves it’s lifelike looks and how I roleplay a guy with a big cock fucking her. Sooooo…. fun!!😉

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• Hello, Rob. My husband also has almost a micro penis. How’s your experience overall? My therapists thinks my husband wants to see me with other men to masturbate watching… but I’d rather having realistic dildos before considering other men in our bed to satisfy his needs. Is that something that you thought about it? Or the dildo was the solution?

Reply 69. Your reviews are bad ass. You explain the drag on Mr hankeys dildos so acutely those types of things are so important people just rave on how things are great. But its those extra things in your feedback are fantastic. I’m tossing between getting a realcock2 but not sure also your the only person who mentions how it droops in a harness. Well said those little things make a big different and should be stated. I’ve seen shorten vac u locks for this maybe that would suit better to avoid that i dont know anyways cheers awesome feedback. Keep it real

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• Thank you so much!

So the Vac harness I own is a brief style, and therefore it’s not the most secure with a heavier dildo. Someone using a leather harness w/ Vac plug meant for big toys, like the Mr. S Leather Dildo Harness that Mr. S and Mr. Hankey’s Toys sell, may have a better experience.

In any case, the RealCock2s all have very substantially sized bases: they are not easy toys to jerk inside oneself by hand!

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• Hi Felicity, so in your opinion what would be your harness recommendation for heavier toys? Thanks

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• Hi! How much heavier, and does it have balls or a suction cup (what is the base like?)?

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• I ordered the Realcock2 / JAMES for extra girth but I’m having doubts now and cancelled the order, although it takes 45x days for a refund so apparently I’m still in the cue if I want to reinstate the order I won’t lose my place in the cue .. I should have had this around now 4/6weeks delivery but they end telling me it’s going to be February 2024 because of lead build times are longer now..

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• Facts So so informative…super super important I feel the same.

Reply 70. Felicity, your reviews are *so* helpful, I feel like I’m holding each of these models in a shop or giving them a spin myself! Question: my partner loves the feel of anal with a human cock, but hasn’t found a dildo that works for their butt. We’ve explored the RealCock as a (pricey) option, but is there one you’d recommend that has the give on the outside with right rigidness for anal? Looking at the Leo from Squarepeg…thank you so much!!

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• Thank you so much!!! Definitely would not recommend RealCock. Apparently now the wait time is up to 8+ months and they don’t respond to customers, plus mine totally degraded, like a TPE dildo would.

So, 100% super-soft silicone first became popular for anal use specifically, not for vaginal. That was SquarePeg’s SuperSoft first, followed by Bad Dragon in the ’00s, and then a ton of other fantasy cos. who use Smooth-On Ecoflex plus Mr. Hankey’s Toys in the ’10s. With any real super-soft silicone, it feels great for anal *BUT* you have to be adequately warmed up / relaxed to take the size toy you’re trying to use (i.e., it’s tougher to get super-soft inside because it can fold over; so insertion should be approached slowly if one is sizing up).

With SquarePeg dildos, definitely try either Leo (for length + overall skin feel) or Steve (more prostate stimulation) or Wyatt (which is kinda midway between Leo and Steve, except a bit smoother than Leo). Even if not as erect as a real penis, the material is awesome.

For most realistic in terms of firmness, I do have a new top pick, but the toy is in production and there are only a few copies in North America; I am veryyyyy excited about updating this guide around June 2024 with that dildo because I love it to death, and the coloring is fairly realistic (not just a flat one-color) while the firmness balance is just spot-on for me.

Thank you a ton for reading.

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• Hey Felicity, I have a Fiancé and i’ve tried the naked dildo line and she didn’t like it she said it was too “hard” and no drag. we tried plenty on dildos and I was goin to try the Realcock2 dirk. I think thats the one shes most interested in but the wait times are gonna be long so what would u recommend in the mean time that is comparable to the Realcock2 dirk, in terms of realism and drag and softness with some firmness. She’s pretty sensitive in the vaginal area.

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• Hi! Can you be specific about exactly which dildo it was she tried that felt hard? … Was having “no drag” a downside for her, here?

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• Felicity, Just reading these comments and wondering about the June update for this guide. I would love to find the perfect realistic dildo for me. I definitely want a firmness close to a real penis but would sacrifice a little firmness for the perfect skin texture. I do love deep penetration so maybe a softer one would bend better? some firmer ones ive used I can’t get all the way in because of the bend in my rectum. As far as girth goes 1.5″ to 1.6″ definitely seems perfect but maybe a softer one would allow me to go slightly bigger?? suction cup is a must as I love to ride hands free

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• Yeah… the listing is up now, apparently the inventory is stuck in transit or customs, it’s apparently slated for early July landing, but this Solina “large” is 100% hands-down the most realistic average-size dildo I’ve ever felt, silicone of course — tremendously looking forward to updating!!!

Reply 71. Hi Felicity, What do you think about Dear Rabbits realistic dildos? I haven’t seen anyone review them online, but they seem like reliable, realistic, silicone dildos from the photos. Thinking about purchasing. https://www.dearrabbits.com/collections/realistic-dildos

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• They’re just run-of-the-mill Chinese whitelabel toys, looking at how shiny the silicone is in all their images, and how overdone the pigmentation is. I’ve gotten half a dozen similar products. They’re extremely slick, which feels less skin-like but some people will like it for anal use specifically. The silicone feels cheap, and may/may not be platinum-cured; which isn’t necessarily going to be harmful to the end user (the consumer), but peroxide curing creates more volatile byproducts.

Reply 72. Will you please elaborate on which lubes you like best for different materials?

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• The amount of friction any type of play will produce is even more important when choosing a lubricant, vs. the material: though you typically want to avoid silicone lubricant with most silicone toys.

Water-based lubricants are compatible with all sex toy materials, but truly a dumpster fire in terms of safety with human mucous membranes (like the vaginal lining, and inside the rectum) because of all the processed preservatives required for them to not mold on shelf, emulsifiers that can interfere with the vag. microbiome, and hyperosmolal thickeners that make most of them feel moisturizing upon application but mess with the epithelial barrier as the lube soaks in, even destroying cells. My full piece on lubricant safety / dangerous lubricants here. This is what I do use currently:

Clit stimulation toys, like air pulse:: Sliquid H20.G-spot vibrators & rabbit vibrators: Sliquid H20 usually by itself, but will add a few drops of Sliquid Silk hybrid if I’m drier or I just feel I need more padding any given day.Thrusting with realistic dildos / faster motion on a fuck machine: Sliquid H2O + Sliquid Silk. The minimal silicone content of the Silk hybrid reduces friction more.For penis-in-vagina sex: Pure silicone lubricant.Anal plugs: Extra virgin coconut oil.

Reply 73. Hi, I am a lesbian looking to purchase a long-lasting, real feel, skin like dildo that is vac-u-lock compatible. The safe skin like dildos are usually always suction cups and i’ve always had bad experiences with suction cups because it makes it hard to switch positions without the dildo falling off the harness. Please let me know what you would recommend.

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• Hi, thank u for reading!!! I wonder if you all are into thick dildos? If not, that rules out most of the Vac-U options, since the silicone toys with hole option (like by Hankey’s Toys) tend to run 1.8 to 2″ diameter in order to accommodate the Vac peg’s size and not tear the silicone. I believe the small “Perfect Penis” dildo by Hankey’s is the slimmest, but IMO single density silicone (like all Vac-compatible silicone dildos are) also feels considerably less lifelike vs. a dual-layer silicone dildo that’s done well.

For an average size dildo that is definitely real feel but 100% non-toxic (even after months, won’t hang onto bacteria!!!) I cannot recommend the Solina “large” realistic dildoenough: it’s actually a very average diameter, from 1.4 to 1.5 inches, but has 6.75″ length. It feels 10 times better, and looks more real, than the Neo Elites. Yes, this is a normal suction cup dildo, but try it with a Body Dock harness. I was so skeptical about how good the suction-cup “stickage” would be with this setup before I got one, but it is amazing. Really strong hold after you press the dildo down.

Reply 74. Just as an added comment about Real Doll, yes definitely expensive and definitely long lead times. Don’t believe their website about the turnaround times. I made an order October of 23… still don’t have it. It appears that I “might” get it in another three months putting it nearly 14 months….if I get it. I’d question spending the money since they definitely have production problems. If I ever get it. I do a review!

Reply 75. Started reading the first review then next thing I knew I’m just sucked in. Good shit! Every review just hit hard and with basically perfect grammar and spelling. That is a win!

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• Thanks so much, I appreciate the kind words in re readability!!! I’m sure there are a few typos on site, but I think I do pretty well. I’m a former book editor who once dreamed of becoming a linguistics professor 😄

Reply 76. Very informative review.

I’m having some trouble understanding what you mean by a “drag” of a dildo. It seems drag varies for each individual.

My question:

What is drag of a dildo?

Does a real cis male penis drag or do not drag?

Bonus question

How do you prewarm your silicone dildos? I would like to keep it warm for my partner prior to use. I’m thinking of buying a digital water bath.

Thanks for reading.

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• Hi! Drag is a word that indicates friction / extra pull, anything that is not smooth glide. Drag can be decreased either when a person’s vag is wet naturally or with a decent lubricant. All dildos that have more texture have more drag, though the particular surface finish of a silicone dildo also affects how draggy it feels.

Real penises drag more either (1) when the vag being penetrated is dry / unlubricated, mainly; and (2) if the penis is larger, then that can also feel more abrasive, depending on several factors too: preference and experience level. But generally, human skin has less drag than even smooth silicone.

I personally don’t feel any need to prewarm, as the toy will heat to match my body temp very quickly amidst thrusting, or after a few minutes if left stationary; that’s so fast that it’s just a hassle to heat the dildo up for me, but it could be your partner has a different opinion there.

Thank you for reading too!

Reply 77. I have read many reviews from many reviewers, but following Felicity for I think close to 3 1/2 years, her reviews are the best – full stop. I appreciate the the questions about drag and and how to warm dildos. Those are very good questions, especially when a picky vag (as Felicity would say) is involved, and I have learned that every woman must be different. Felicity’s reviews help tease out the mystery. Being male, I had the most difficulty getting the “drag” correct, which is affected by girth, firmness, and manufacturer. I have purchased Hankey, Square Peg, Uberimme, Realcock, Njoy, John Thomas and others of different shapes and sizes. Some that I thought would be great turned out to be a flop. Some were good one day but not so good on another day, which made it even more difficult. My lady (for the past 35 years) does not like cold at all so I use a heating pad (sometimes warm water in a extra large cup) to warm both the toys and lube. Back to the drag conundrum, which until recently, continued to be a little frustrating. To solve the issue I would read Felicity’s reviews, choose and purchase a toy, observe, observe, observe and get feedback, reread Felicity’s review to put meaning and context to her words, rinse and repeat. Finally, when I read Felicity’s review on Solina Mega toys, I knew instantly this was a winner and I bought all three. They are great and turns out the Solina XL Mega was a grand slam having the perfect feel, texture, girth and drag for a go to toy. I would never buy a toy with out checking with Felicity – Thank you Felicity!

Reply 78. Thank you! I am a queer woman who loves being fucked (vaginally) with realistic dildos. What would be your recommendation for the best sexy harness (I like top femmes with a huge cock and a sexy harness) thanks!!!! Your review rocks!

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• You know, I’m not really a cute & sexy harness person, I like plain styles, but reading other folks’ reviews I’ve come away with the general impression that RodeoH makes very good harnesses: see their panty harness here, for one.

For dildos, if you’re looking for a rec there, the Solina Mega XXL is awesome & my personal favorite dildo. It’s very big for most people since it’s like 1 in a million size vs. human erections, but size queens will find it “not that wide.”

Hope this helps!!!

Reply 79. I remember reading a post you wrote about the Amante triple density dildo. How does that compare to a Solina? I’m getting a complimentary Solina (large) but I’m wondering if it’d be worth forking out for an Amante since they’re similar sizes and seem to occupy a similar niche.

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• Amante is substantially bigger than the Solina Mega Large. It’s more like the Mega Extra-Large.

The outer layer of silicone in Amante is a bit firmer.

Try out the Mega Large or XL depending on your size preferences (Mega large is median penis girth, XL is thick), and then see if the Amante still interests you. Its silicone does feel different, but in a way that’s similar enough that it really depends on how much sensation one is able to feel vaginally.

Reply 80. Have you found any realistic foreskin dildos thar have loose skin over the head like the real thing? I love foreskin but have never been able to find a dildo that has realistic foreskin.

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• Not possible! For toys, safety must be paramount, and cured silicone is amazing just for the fact that it can be soft plus functionally nonporous. Squishy squeezable soft silicone is a feat. Read more on so-called “moving foreskin toys” in my uncut dildos post. Silicone will not retain bacteria, while all human penises do.

Reply 81. Hi Felicity – new to lifelike dildos. Your reviews are great. Interested in getting one for my wife (fantasy of both of ours to introduce a new cock to the mix). I’m trying to find one that I can be sure is manufactured in the U.S. 8”+ and 2” diameter with balls would be ideal. any tips? Thanks! Steve

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• Skip down to the super-soft section for the U.S. made options. No one makes ultra-realistic silicone dual-layer dildos with balls here because generally, people won’t/can’t pay for a $200-300 dildo. (And I’m alleging that the $600-$700 RealCocks are, besides being awkward to handle, not fully silicone.) See Mel actual/tan or Rentman small/40% soft. As 100% super-soft, rather than dual-density, they’ll bend more than an erection, but lots of folks think they feel pretty realistic — especially in the bigger size range since you’re looking for 2″ diameter and up, then 0030 to 0040 Shore silicone has a nice fleshy feel. That’s SquarePeg’s SuperSoft silicone and Hankey’s Toys’ 40% Soft silicone.

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• Hi Felicity – thanks for the feedback on the super soft options made in the US…much appreciated. Happy New Year!

Reply 82. Hi Felicity, I am curious to know what you make of the flood of Chinese made “hyper realistic” dual density dildos that have become available on Amazon during the past 12-18 months. One company who go by the name of Reproduction or Repromgo on Amazon US or Twinice/Fanmorph on Amazon UK are selling the most astonishingly realistic looking dildos I have ever seen in more than 20 years as a collector. They are more expensive than the other Chinese brands and claim to be made from body safe liquid silicone. They have a range of over 50 different styles/models. Obviously, they are completely unregulated and come from a source which will naturally lead to suspicion. However, the reviews are mostly extremely positive in terms of appearance, texture, durability, ease of cleaning and odour. I am extremely curious to know what they are really made from and whether it can really be safe/non-toxic. Are they too good-looking to be true?!

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• It’s hard to tell, but I would assume based on some dildo samples I’ve received that they’re a peroxide cured silicone,

And they look very realistic visually in the product photos, except that if you look closely, they have certain shiny-ness that makes them appear more like TPE, even if they’re a liquid silicone, in real life.

Another example of this that I’ve tested out is the Hismith dual-density dildos that go with their sex machines. Like, they’re pretty good, kinda lifelike, but also really stickier and slicker than is lifelike IMO, when actually using the toy.

I can also tell you based on some recent samples I’ve gotten out of China (one of which had detail just like this) that any silicone toy, no matter the finish, with that high level of pore detailing will feel draggy inside the vagina. No amount or type of lubricant will help. It’s not good at all, really really not fun.

Too much detail, ironically, actually makes a dildo feel less realistic. (Does look awesome, though, if you like display dildos.)

Reply 83. Hi Felicity – I wanted to share a follow up to my question regarding US-made realistic triple density. I found a brand called Valm out of Utah. Ordered the 8”. We’ve been loving it. My wife said it feels real / like mine, just a bit larger/fuller. They claim it’s made from a live model, which is a nice feature (for us, at least 😊). Any thoughts or experience with this brand? Thanks for all of your insight. Much appreciated.

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• Indie dildo shops tend to come and go so much, I will no longer recommend a shop that hasn’t been around for years with a reliable sales and review record. I don’t ever want to direct folks to a newer/unknown shop that when more than a few orders come in, has huge fulfillment delays and starts ghosting people.

The company you mentioned is importing those molds from China. Which isn’t necessarily a bad thing, quality-wise, it just means their “designed and made in the USA” line for those realistic dildos is a lie. Check out the U.S. Patent and Trademark Office search function to see that the brand is owned by NCO Ventures, Inc., which has been importing from China for a long time. No “in it for the love of quality products” U.S. indie-maker puts up a new site that looks that slick. If you look at this guy’s other brands, they include TPE “pocket pussys.” There’s as much chance of that brand being 100% U.S. designed & made as there is of me being a billionaire 😄

Reply 84. Felicity, What’s the best hollow, real feel dilso in the market right now ?

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• I haven’t encountered any hollow dildos that feel remotely realistic. There are some super-soft silicone penis extenders that feel OK, if they’re over a rock-hard erection, though the fit needs to be pretty precise there.

Overall, I personally say: either dildo or penis. Not silicone over a penis. I’m not a big fan of extenders because full-body contact makes me instinctively want actual skin feel. So, it’s either just the D or just the dildo, or alternating between the two (or watching / playing alongside while I’m using a fucking machine with a realistic dual-density (solid) dildo).

Reply 85. Hey Felicity, I’m looking for a realistic cock to suck and wank. I’ve tried so many, but never been really happy. Any recommendations?

Reply 86. Hi Felicity, What would you recommend for a couple with ED problems? Over the years (36) premature ejaculation has gotten worse and so has our frustration. And now that we are in our early sixties (him) and late fifties (me) we are dealing with a significant loss of hardness and an extended amount of time it takes for me to get there. We are new to sex toys, so far only a little bullet has been purchased and tried out. We are looking for a realistic hollow strap-on in hopes that he won’t be the only one enjoying an orgasm.

Reply 87. Hi!!! It’s a great wide review, but it’s so sad that a lot of those products are selled by PeepShowToys… I just called to’em but they were really unnecesary rudes when I asked if they ship to Mexico. Can you recommend another reallistic alternative to this? I’ll ask them if they send to Mexico. I’m checking SheVibe and BadDragon but Solina really looks very well, what a shame. Thanks so much!!!

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